Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. Complaining is a choice, and will usually get you more worked up and stressed, and will not amount to anything beneficial. Entertaining negative drama in your life is a choice. If you look for it and seek it, you will most certainly find it. Pain in our life is inevitable, but misery is optional. Refuse to continue to relive the pain from your past, move on. Peace in our life is a choice, if you seek it, you will most certainly find it. Love yourself enough to let go of the people whose company is toxic to your peace of mind. Choose to spend your time with individuals who uplift you and feed your soul, you’ll know who they are because you always feel really good after being around them. Listen to your inner voice, not the random opinion of others. Life goes by quickly, so choose happiness, stop complaining, lose the drama, find peace, and enjoy the good life that you deserve. Remember that the greatest part of your happiness will depend on your disposition and perspective, not your circumstances.